Woman Kept Abuse a Secret in Exchange for

A woman in Victoria promised to include her daughter in her $6 million estate if she promised to keep her sexual abuse at the hands of her father a secret.

However when the mother died in 2012, aged 93, she failed to keep her promise and left the bulk of her estate to her two sons. She left $1.3 million to her daughter while each son received over $2 million. She also excluded her grandson completely from her will, who had reported his grandfather to the police for sexually abusing him when he was only four years old.

The daughter sued her mother’s estate, seeking a larger portion of the $6 million.

In her claim, the daughter said her mother promised her that she would receive “an equal share of the family wealth as the price for her remaining quiet about her father’s sexual abuse of her”.

The court heard that the daughter was 14 years old when her father began to abuse her, threatening her that he would kill her if she told anyone. The abuse continued over the next twelve months. When the daughter began to fear she would become pregnant as a result of the abuse, she decided to tell her mother. Her mother told her she would ‘take care of it’, and several days later the father apologised.

The daughter pleaded with her mother to leave the father, but the mother refused, saying that if she left her husband, the daughter would lose out as the estate they were building together would go entirely to her husband.

The daughter said that although her father did not abuse her again, he made her life a living hell with his emotional abuse of her from that time onward. When he died in 2007, the mother told the daughter she had stayed in the marriage for her sake so that “this will all be yours one day.”

The judge said in the ruling that the mother had failed in her moral duty towards her daughter.

“The deceased knew of her husband’s abuse of [the daughter] yet remained silent about it. She could not or would not stand up to her husband and she feared the family wealth would be at risk if she did take any action to report him.

“The deceased should have recognised that [the daughter] would suffer consequent emotional and psychological damage caused by the sexual abuse.

“In extracting [the daughter’s] silence about the abuse and failing to protect her, the deceased owed [the daughter] a significant moral duty.”

The daughter won an additional property worth $775,000 and $100,000 in cash. Her son, the deceased’s grandson, also won $175,000.

Certain relatives of the deceased person have the right to make a claim on an estate if they feel they have been unfairly provided for under a will.

The relevant section of the Queensland legislation is s. 41 of the Succession Act:

(1) If any person (the deceased person) dies whether testate or intestate and in terms of the will or as a result of the intestacy adequate provision is not made from the estate for the proper maintenance and support of the deceased person’s spouse, child or dependant, the court may, in its discretion, on application by or on behalf of the said spouse, child or dependant, order that such provision as the court thinks fit shall be made out of the estate of the deceased person for such spouse, child or dependant.

It is important to note that each claim is decided on a case-by-case basis, with all extenuating circumstances considered. Though it may be tempting to seek revenge from beyond the grave by excluding a relative from the will, the reality is that the court has the authority to over rule the will.

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