Funerals seem like something you don’t need to know much about until you’re getting closer to being measured for a casket. We don’t really like to contemplate our own death, but when we have people around us dying – especially those who seemed like they’d be around forever or who we think were ‘taken before their time’, reality bites. Have a think about it – what song would you like played at your funeral? What are your favourite flowers? Would you like someone in particular to give your eulogy? Would you like a slideshow to be made of your life and played at your funeral? Do you wish to be buried or cremated?
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Timothy Gianotti, an Islamic studies scholar who helped Ali for years to plan his memorial service said in the lead up to Ali’s funeral, “The message that we’ll be sending out is not our message — this was really designed by the champ himself.” Ali was integral in the design and format of the service. In the document outlining what he wanted he included things like who he wanted doing eulogies, where he wanted the memorial service and where he was to be buried, that he wanted a traditional Muslim service as well as the memorial and to have ordinary fans there, not just VIP’s.
What you’d like to happen at your funeral can be as simple as a conversation with your loved ones, but writing it down and discussing it is even more helpful. To ensure that what you want is followed through, then it needs to be a part of your will. Because a will is a binding legal document, there really can’t be too much straying from what’s outlined in there (as long as it’s in accordance with laws and regulations).
The good news is that the money can come from the estate or your superannuation, but because that can take some time to come through, your family may be left out of pocket in the meanwhile. Some people save specifically for their funeral, while others use pre-paid funeral plans. There are pros and cons to these so it’s important that you do your homework (or get someone to help you do your homework) before you decide the best path for you (and what will likely be changing circumstances as you move through life).
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The typical items you’ll need to pay for when arranging a funeral include:
Death certificate
Funeral director fees (they do vary quite a bit)
Transport
Burial or cremation
Flowers
Coffin
Celebrant or clergy fee
The wake
Not all of these items need to be included, but most do. Even Costco understand that some items are essential. Costco says that 14 different coffins and caskets ranging in price from $360 to $3800 are on offer in Australia now – alongside the store’s eclectic mix of groceries, electronics and household goods. Isaac Leung is the chief executive of Scientia, the maker of those coffins, who says, “Dying is expensive and funeral costs are evidently going higher and higher. You’re going to have people that are cost-conscious and are going to look for those savings.”
By planning your funeral now, you will be potentially saving your family not just potential financial burden in your planning but also from conflict and indecision when you die. Your funeral plans are often outlined in your will – an important document that includes all your wishes about your death and legacy. Our estate lawyers are will writing experts who would be happy to discuss your estate planning needs with you. We offer a free, 10-minute phone consultation. Please contact us today!